The Joy of Cuckolding - How To Achieve Your Fantasy of Being a Cuckold

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By infoportal

Cuckolded Man

The Cuckold
The Cuckold

Why Do So Many Men Want to be Cuckolds?

It seems that the hottest fantasy that men have these days is to be a cuckold. How long is this phase going to last?

If you're a man, there is a good chance you have had a cuckold fantasy and if you're a woman, there is a good chance your lover will ask you if you ever thought about cuckolding.

What is a cuckold, you may ask?

A cuckold is a man who has a wife or lover who sleeps with other men with his knowledge. The cuckold may be present in the room in which case he may be expected to prepare the wife for the "bull" or even clean up afterwards.

Have You Ever Fantasized About Being a Cuckold or Cuckolding Someone?

  • Yes
  • No
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History of Cuckoldry

The word ‘cuckold’ has been in use since the early 12th century. The term basically refers to a man who is married to an adulterous wife. Of course, the very meaning of the term ‘adulterous’ has changed drastically from the 12th century to the 19th century, but the basic concept still remains the same.

The term cuckold and horns are closely related, because it is thought that a cuckolded husband is the last to know about his wife’s adulterous nature, and is therefore wearing horns that are visible to everyone else except him. In fact, several imagery of the past that is related to cuckoldry shows the husband wearing a horn.


Reluctant Cuckoldress

But What if She Doesn't Want to Cuckold Me?

There are ways to broach this sensitive topic with a female lover who may not be into sleeping with other men. Also, she may be too in love with you to ever think of you as a cuckold.

The key to helping your lover see you as a cuckold and not as the alpha male that she married is to become so subservient to her that sexually you become boring.

Some of those ways include:

  • Waiting on her hand and foot
  • Instead of being the alpha male, let her take the lead
  • Be overly romantic

More tips can be found at http://cuckoldjoy.com.


Why Women are Resistant to Cuckolding

Because women were raised to not be sluts, it is extremely hard to get a woman who cares about you to cuckold you. If a woman feels she has a good thing going, why would she want to potentially put the relationship at risk?

Women are resistant to cuckolding for several reasons:

  • She does not want to be seen as a slut either by the cuckold or by the stud.
  • She does not want to risk falling for the "stud".
  • She is afraid she will lose respect for the cuckold.
  • She is afraid of catching a sexually transmitted diesease.
  • She does not want to risk the relationship in any way.


What Are the Risks of Cuckolding?


Madonna-Whore Complex

For All of You Who Want Your Girlfriend to Cuckold You, Would You Marry Your Cuckoldress?

  • Yes, If we were compatible in other ways.
  • Maybe. I'm not sure if a Cuckoldress would make a good wife. I have mixed feelings.
  • Hell No. A Cuckoldress is a slut and I don't marry sluts.
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The Joy of Cuckolding

Comments

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Gyspy Writer 17 months ago

Wow. I didn't even know what cuckold was until I read this. Very informative. I have to say I like this idea much better than having a man who fools around with other women. lol. Great article!

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Dynicky 17 months ago

this is truly interesting. I must say I haven't heard of this... This one is a first

Mike 14 months ago

Best thing I ever did was allow myself to become a cuckold. I love my wife but am often exhausted by work and can't satisfy her. It took a bit of getting used to, but now she is sexualy content again - and our marriage is stronger.

omar 12 months ago

i'm a nice white cuckboy

paul 11 months ago

I love serving my cuckoldress in ay manner she chooses.

mr cuckold 7 months ago

cuckolding men is a brilliant way for women to dominate the male race since all men are cheats

Queen Caroline 6 months ago

I wish cuckolding is socially accepted and out of taboo. If it would be same well known as Gay lifestyle then i am sure there will be a lot more cuckold couples in this world. There would be a lot less divorces. I have a cuckold group on FB, and hear lot of issues from cuckold wannabees whos wife does not want to cuckold them. But those same wives cheat behind his back..weird! Some cucks are so brave to talk to the lover, and together they get the wife into cuckolding. Some cucks are divorced by wife, left for the lover, and when she is EX she starts cuckolding him. As if its not allowed while they where married..too bad that children become victim of divorce while parents could have stayed together just by accepting that they are a cuckold couple..

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Trsmd 6 months ago

First time I am hearing this word.. These type of activities are also there? I wonder...

Frued 5 months ago

In psychology it is widely regarded that men who desire to be Cuckolded are secretly either Gay or Bi Sexual ! It is the cuckold himself that wishes he were the one having sex with the so called Bull and not his wife. He himself has fantasies of making love to his wife's lover but he doesn't have the courage to admit to himself that he is either Gay or Bi ! Instead he lives his fantasies of lusting after other men through watching his wife or partner with her lovers.

kag1956virgin.co.uk 4 months ago

I LOVE MY PARTNER TYING ME UP AND TXTING TALKING TO A FRIEND, I FEEL CLOSE WHEN ITS COMPLETE AND FEELMY LOVE FOR HER IS STRONGER FOR HER,

anddrow 3 months ago

my dream is to find a woman that realy enjoy cuckolding me

martin 3 months ago

my wife has cuckolded me,after 17 years of marriage,she is 42 and very hot,i absoloutely love it,a mix of dread and ultimate fantasy when it happened,she is so into it with this guy,but has no love for him,it has spiced up our marriage

Him 3 months ago

I would love to see my wife with a black man

Rita 3 months ago

I have done this with my husband during the last 5 years of marriage, the whole thing came about after a totally off the wall conversation one night when we were out.

At first it was a bit odd but now my husband lives it, he hasn't got the biggest..... And he love seeing well a endowed guy take me. He masturbates now for sexually satisfaction and the bigger the cock that the guy has the more he enjoys seeing them with me.

Obviously I am thrilled with this as I get to be with the man I love and achieve total sexual satisfaction.

Well the way I see it is a woman will find it very hard to find true love and when you do if the true live has a small cock what do you do fall out of love? I think not. If your true love really loves you sex is just a satisfying act that ever woman and man needs, not everyone will achieve satisfaction the same way, and this is the way we do.

Any comments would live to hear.

rita.hickey1@hotmail.com

mike 3 months ago

Rita i have been a happy weak submissive little cuckold to my wife now for 3 years.

my Queen and me has a 12 year old daughter (i am not the dad) that happened before i became a cuckold but she first sdmitted to me after we made this arrangement.

the problem now is, my daughter confronted me asking why i allow my Wife/her mother to be unfaithfull, and she is angry at bioth me and my Wife.

i told my Wife about this and She wants to tell our daughter about how it is.

i am not sure its the right thing to do. You have any advices for me or someone else have?

thanks in advance and kiss and hug from the sweet happy little cuckold

Cuckold Coach 3 months ago

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Cuckold Coach 3 months ago

Get Your Wife/Girlfriend To Cuckold You In 30 Days Or Less!!!

Would you love to have your wife/girlfriend cuckold you but yet still remain emotionally faithful and loyal only to you? Give me just five minutes of your time and I will show you how simple and easy it is to get your wife/girlfriend to willingly agree to this lifestyle. Visit us at www.learntocuckold.com

xoxo 2 months ago

The idea of being a Cuckold husband only comes in the males who lack selfesteem and have rececive/prominent interest of bisexuality or Gay. The cucoldress may have higher amount of male hormone than the normal women that's why more dominance and sexual urge.While a cuck boy has lower male hormone and/or higher female hormone than the normal males.

It is very normal for males and females to feel attraction towards new partner to have a change in taste and biologically allow the genetics for a set of new combinations. But gay, bisexual and cuck interests show some fluctuations in sex hormones than the normal level.

Though not in all the cases but in most of the cases, cuck males are submissive in their work life and social life too. Generally they can't be a good leader and lack dicision making courage. When they loose their position in home also, their life may become a burden for them later on. So I would like to advice( its my personal thinking only. Pl don't take if u don't like) males thinking of cuckold fantacies that under any circumstances try to maintain ur self respect. Which is most important than any thing.

When a fantasy may ruin ur family life, ur status in ur family

Cuckboy 2012 7 weeks ago

The best way to get cuckolded ? Get on your four , and kiss her fit everyday ! Love my cuckoldress dominant wife ;)

cuckold98661 5 weeks ago

@xoxo...u couldent be more wrong in my opinion ! I have about the most manly job a man could have rge respect of the guys in my field and have great,leadership skills ! My hobbies are all above avrage in the manly catagory and have been with my wife for many years and very happy we just both enjoy the cuckold lifestyle the thought of my beautiful wife being with a lover better then my self is awesome ! I,wish this was,more exceptable as,im proud of her and her choice to be complwtly fullfilled !

mr8fetish 5 weeks ago

after listening to what everyone hear is talking about I really want to meet a women that would be interested in cuckolding me. my email is jgoaliej@yahoo.com

Turik6 4 weeks ago

Wow, that about sums up what I have to say. Researching a character for a book and this cuckolding seems perfect for my Hero or what ever since it seems hard to apply hero to some one who wants to be cuckoled.

Maybe redefine hero?

I don't know, fascinating subject though.

cuckoldress 3 weeks ago

i am looking to find a real cuckold for my self if you want a cuckoldress you can mail me on fashfemi27@yahoo.com

Jerry Gatlin 4 days ago

Hi can any one give me Direct Information is to how I can Best Hook Up in doing some on Film Cuckolding? I done this once way back in Step 2004 about 8 Years ago and have Loved this Fantasy ever since then. 5-14-12...

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